Perfect hurts

I've got a mean perfectionist streak but you probably wouldn't know it by looking at me. I certainly don't look like perfection. Perfection isn't conveyed in my work or much that I do. However, I certainly feel the pressure to be a perfect person and I crumble underneath it. I've read theories that perfectionists are [...]


This too shall pass

I am a big ol' cheeseball. I like to get read motivational quotes and watch moving YouTube videos. I'll send my friends inspirational memes that tell them how magical they are. I attempt to give speeches and advice that raises spirits and heals souls ala almost every episode of 'Grey's Anatomy'. The truth is, being [...]

The dating muscle

I was listening to a podcast today and someone on it made a passing comment comparing dating to a muscle. They said 'the more dates you go on, the easier it is. If you haven't been on a date in a while, it can be nerve wracking.' I don't know what this person's definition of [...]

Here it is…

Well, I'm officially, 35 years old. A 35-year-old college student living with mom. Yep, I'm awesome. Stay back boys, I know you all want to get with this hot dish. In all seriousness, this day has been as joyful as you would it expect it to be for a 35-year-old college student that still lives [...]

Tangerine dreams and marmalade skies…

Well this has been a challenging week for this introvert. I think work has drained my batteries completely, they are at 2, wait, they just died. I knew the week would be challenging, I let a too many troops out of the office at one time and then another troop missed 2 days which [...]